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The Simple but Profound Metric of True Growth



Personal growth and development are aspirations we all share. As human beings, we naturally strive to achieve our fullest potential.


This innate drive for self-improvement can manifest in various areas of life. However, the foundation of true growth lies in personal maturity. The question is: by what metrics do we measure this growth?


This week’s Torah portion offers a profound insight. In describing Moses’ emergence as a leader, the verse states: “Moses grew up and went out to his brethren and saw their burdens” (Exodus 2:11).


Moses, raised in the luxury and security of Pharaoh’s palace, was sheltered from the harsh realities of his oppressed brethren. Yet, despite his privileged position, he was deeply unsettled by the injustice surrounding him. He chose to step outside the confines of his royal life and into the harsh world of the downtrodden.


This act was more than a physical journey—it was a transformative one. To fully comprehend a new reality, one must be willing to leave behind the familiar. Moses’ journey didn’t stop there. The Torah tells us that “he saw their burdens.” Rashi explains that Moses “set his eyes and heart to share in their distress.” He didn’t merely observe their suffering; he internalized it, making their pain his own.


Here lies a timeless lesson: the ultimate metric of personal growth is empathy. The ability to truly see, feel, and connect with the struggles of others is the cornerstone of maturity. Growth is not about accomplishments or accolades—it’s about cultivating a heart that can embrace the needs and burdens of another.


It’s a simple yet profound truth. And while it may not be easy, it’s within reach for all of us. As the mystics teach, “There is a spark of Moses embedded in each and every one of us.”


May we all ignite that spark and measure our lives not by what we achieve for ourselves, but by the compassion we extend to others.

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